In conflicts in which you are in the right, look for a just arbiter to turn the tide in your favor. This person must be strong and above reproach, so that he has both moral authority and personal clout. In such situations it furthers you to let go, and let the arbiter take over. If you have satisfied your own conscience that your cause is just, chances are that you will convince others of good conscience as well. And remember, friend, not every field is a battleground; many conflicts simply resolve themselves.